Thursday
Haiti Support- Mattresses for Orphanage
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For a recap of my first trip to Haiti in October of this year and general overview of the state of the nation, read this post: Haiti Overview - October Trip
Tuesday
Thursday
::Gratitude: The Fish On The Hook::
In Christianity, it's often expressed that it's tremendously difficult to connect with the spiritual realms of God. The supernatural if you will is something that only the spiritually elite attain and everyone else just suffers with a lesser version or maybe they settle that it just doesn't work for them. It's thought you must already be a "spiritual person" to connect with God in this way or that maybe those who walk in these paths must have earned this through some level of sacrifice and thus have greater access to God. While some of these thoughts are apart of the journey with God, they aren't the key to encountering Him in your personal life. We all have access to the secret place of God, His presence and His power.
Have you ever heard fishermen who've had some success, talk about how to get the "fish on the hook?" While this might sound like the logical point of fishing to non fishermen, it's a distinct challenge to actually get the "fish on the hook". It takes some experience to get something on the hook with more significance than a blue gill, if you know what I mean. This expression now also has a more common meaning, often referring to accomplishing a goal and getting it to last or sales teams acknowledging that they sealed a deal. It's a great statement to make because it states the fact that something that was difficult to obtain was obtained and it's going to have a great outcome. So how do we get the- encountering the presence and supernatural power of God "fish on the hook"?
I did a teaching series on crafted prayer recently. One of the main aspects of effective prayer is getting to a place of no distractions. It's popular in christian circles to talk about a "prayer closet". This simply refers to Jesus telling the people of His day to pray in their room with the door shut and that they could find God in this secret place (religious leaders were known for praying loudly on market corners). While teaching I brought out the fact that we actually have to make the decision to "come into the presence" of God. It's a place that we enter consciously. I believe that we can stay in the place all the time, but distractions limit us for sure. Anyways, the greatest component of coming into the presence of God is referenced in the Psalms over and over. It's Thanksgiving. Come into His presence with Thanksgiving or more relevantly: with gratitude.
While being grateful about life doesn't sound like a profound answer to encountering God, I've found that most things about God have been overcomplicated. This simple answer isn't the one punch ticket, but it's the launch pad for all things that lead to encountering God. Think of it as good bait on your hook. It's the right lure. When we begin to give thanks about all that is in our life, it softens our inner walls of skepticism and inhibition and allows our heart to be open to whatever and however God wants to encounter us. It destroys that spirit of entitlement that permeates our current society and culture. I've found being mindful of the this and intentionally looking to receive during moments of gratitude has lifted my expectation and thus my experiences with God are becoming even more dynamic.
So, tomorrow is a big day with lots of food, family and friends. What about tomorrow could be a beginning to encountering God like you never have? Be gracious with expectation. Who knows, in your spirit of gratitude, maybe you'll have the best day with family you've had in years. Maybe dinner goes a little better than planned rather than the complete nightmare that history holds in it's hand. Maybe you have a breakthrough to encountering everyday life at a level that you just haven't been able to connect with. Come into His presence with Thanksgiving. It can just be about the turkey and the Lions losing to the Patriots or a great new beginning. Let's get the fish on the hook.
Thank you God for the best thanksgiving we've ever had.
Monday
State Of The Church Address: What If?
Thursday
Man's Design and Women's Dream.
The commitment of the marriage relationship creates the safety needed to experience the deepest of realms with a person that you otherwise never would. Not that those realms can't be experienced outside of marriage, there just isn't the safety of lifelong commitment to protect it. This is another topic, but I wonder why so many people are broken in relationship these day? They want the benefits of intimacy on all levels, but not the commitment to cover it. These powerful commitments yield the need for great leadership, focus and selflessness... but nonetheless, it's the decision that TWO people make. The influence they have with one another is like none other (at least it should be). There's no one else who has the right to speak into our life like our mate does. They earned that right on the wedding day and the trust to support that right is birthed through life experience. This is a dynamic facet to healthy marriage.
So we could say that marriage is a miracle of trust that creates the chance to experience healthy intimate companionship like none other. I love that thought... but even greater I love the opportunity to experience relationship that has no limits or bounds because of where it's authored from. This leads me to my faith and relationship with God. One of the pictures used to explain the relationship between mankind and the creator is that mankind is a bride and the groom (Christ) is coming to unite with us here on the earth through His return. While being a husband doesn't qualify me to comment that I know what it's like to be a bride, I can comment on how my bride (Melissa Rae, I love you.) interacts with me. I believe we culturally have a hard time putting physical attributes to God and our interactions with Him, but the thing we easily forget is that God made us like Him. We're made in His image and likeness. We are who we are because God made us from what He knew of Himself. That said, I have one final thought.
What does it look like for mankind to interact with Christ as a bride does her groom? I think about how much influence my bride has on my life. It didn't just happen. It was a growing thing, but the moment we were engaged, we catapulted into the trust gauntlet, learning how to navigate with one another selflessly. (we made a lot of mistakes, but our commitment through it has yielded a dynamic relationship) Remember the old adage "a happy wife is a happy life"? This statement is an old adage because it's inherently true to most marriages. I wonder what level of influence we have on God to motivate Him on our behalf? I wonder what level of companionship and deep levels of intimacy are available to all of us that we've never encountered only because we didn't know it was possible? What if God's greatest desire is to have a companion that will say I Do for the rest of their life? What if a happy wife is a happy life for God too? What if we have the right thru covenant to the biggest influence in God's interactions with mankind? What if He longs to bring us happiness and He gets great fulfillment out of our success and joy? This what it is for me to my wife so why not God to His bride? What if our interaction with the almighty God was everything that we've dreamed about since we were "little girls" and just didn't know it would be God that would fulfill it? What do you dream about? What if God is the beginning to the life you always desired to have? I believe He wants a companion and He's on one knee, asking. What are we going to say?
Wednesday
My Trip to Haiti Recap...
Saturday
I Got Good News For You!
Tuesday
:::Risky Excerpts:::
Thursday
\\ Sales Call Revenge //
The phone rings… do I take this call?, we ask ourselves… The phone rings a different time and we immediately answer. From the people we want to hear from, a phone call can be a top ten highlight. How many stories have we all heard that climax to the statement "then the phone rang!". I think our expectation for the phone calls themselves, give so much more excitement to the call. I also think it easily works the other direction. As great as we all know the "then the phone rang" phone calls are, we equally put negative weight on the calls we DON'T want to get. Have you ever changed someone’s name in your contacts as "scary person" or rather "don't answer"? Like you needed to be reminded? Interesting how our mindset plays into how the phone call can go. Well I had one of those phone calls yesterday and it went a little differently than the norm.
We (Melissa and I) live in the dark ages of having a home telephone. It's VOIP and it’s only there for emergencies. We don’t necessarily give the number out as a good way of communication, but none the less- it’s there. The overwhelming pattern is that the only calls coming IN are the ones you don’t want or even greater, you didn’t ask for. Sales calls. While this may not be the “don’t answer” person that you STILL have saved in your contacts, we all do actually get to know our sales call companies. How you ask? Well from my experience, the same companies call over and over... And over and over and over. Honestly speaking, we all know why we hate sales calls. “No, we don’t want your products… for the 10th time!” Salesmen are relentless.
So we have this company that keeps calling us here at the house on our phone that nobody typically uses to get ahold of us on and they’ve reached the top of Mount Annoymore. The first time I was polite. Typical response was given. I asked to be taken off their call list. Yada yada yada. After two more calls proceeded within the next few days, the conversation changed. “Ma’am, why do you keep calling us? We’ve already said no three times. Please take us off your list!”. Wouldn’t you know a few days later, unspoken company calls again. At this point I decided to laugh. Mustering up my best “aunt mildred, uncle billy bob” voice I had in me (if you know me, I got this down to… well… like I was a bonifide hillbilly) and gave a good ‘ole fashion conversation about life in “the holler” and how Marybeth just wasn’t feelin that good these days since “she done ‘adder denture tooth nubs redrilled.” It was a riot. I’m laughing hysterically at this point and they didn’t stick around for the second round. Let’s call it a draw.
I’ve just let a few of their calls go lately. I guess I didn’t have the moxy to deliver my weak at best Shawn Connery or dig real deep for my hood slang that I learned while doing inner city work in KJ’s neck of the woods. (Newport represent!) But for some reason, yesterday was different. With all that’s in me, I was stopped dead in my tracks while trying to walk away and ignore yet another call… I heard that whisper in my ear… “answer it and see what I want you to do.” Time out. TIME OUT. Seriously? God you talkin’ to me about the annoying sales company? I’ve learned that at these moments you have a quick moment to decide or you miss your opportunity. I’ve decided to ignore this in past situations and the thought of what I missed always proved to be more annoying than dealing with the situation at hand… (we can’t out give God!). So, I answered it.
“Mr. Neal?”
“Yes.”
“Hi, this is Rob from _________, and the reason I’m calling is…”
You know the schpeal from there. Right in the midst of the schpeal, I heard God say to me, “he’s going thru a very difficult situation in His family and you need to pray for him.” Now, I’ve been asking the Lord to give me more opportunity to help people experience the genuine God that I know He is. I believe that any time a person who hasn’t experienced the love of Christ, has that dynamic life changing opportunity every time that they encounter a believer, but as we all know, thinking about opportunity and walking in opportunity are two totally different realms! So I rudely interrupted his schpeal and just threw it out there. “I’m a Christian and the Lord wants me to pray for you. Is there anything that I can pray for in your life?” …. …. …. Awkward pause. …. … … I heard a totally different voice now. Still Rob, but real Rob. With a slight quiver in his voice, he responded with an abbreviated story of the struggle him and his wife are having in getting full custody over their adopted (potentially) daughter. His burden was tremendous and here I am the one God was sending to help meet a need. I asked him if he was a believer, and he responded that he only believed that God was real but didn’t have an active faith as his lifestyle. So, the quick of it is… we prayed. I prayed. He listened in agreement and it was beautiful. The presence of the Lord filled my bedroom and was flowing thru me like a river. Rob was encountering God like he never had before.
How often as Christ Followers, do we miss our opportunity to have a simple, yet profound impact on what we deem as common. I believe supernatural living is seeing what is familiar as unfamiliar. Seeing what is known in it’s ending, to be unknown. Seeing what may be true to the eye, not as what God sees. It’s our time to be sensitive to the “Robs” that are all around us. Rob was so deeply touched. We shared briefly after our time of prayer and I just encouraged him to be open in the next few days and that the Lord was send another person to him to lead him in next steps. Community, teaching, serving, and commitment. I know that God was faithful to follow up. As I experience these, I’m forever changed. The face of God that is seen in the midst of this, brings you to places of humility and revelation of His love like you’ve never seen. I encourage you to take a risk. Trust your instincts… hear that still small voice and respond. You won’t be disappointed. It’s time. Who in your familiar world does God want you to treat like you’re encountering them for the first time? Offer yourself. Say yes to Him and see what great things will be added to you.
